This page is a gift to you.
It’s what the marketers tell me I should give you only after I make you give me your email address.
To heck with ’em. Here it is, and if you want me to email you when I offer classes (which I do) or when the book is published (this fall) – please, yes, give me your email!
Last year, writing my book, I took a couple weeks off to make a few short videos so all the folks who were asking about it and wanted to use it and share it, could do so. Of course, that took about 6 months longer than I’d planned, but here it is – all 7 hours or so.
This is the body of work I have have been developing over the last dozen years, which I call the Wheel of Consent. The videos are fine, the ideas are fine – but it’s the experience of it that will change you.
I hope you have a great time with it.
Thank you, Betty
WANT-TO AND WILLING-TO: What’s the difference and why does it matter?
RECEIVING AND GIVING: Not what you might think!
FOLLOWING THE PLEASURE: What is pleasure and what does it mean to ‘follow’ it?
The geekery behind it ~ what is happening here?
The Taking Role
The Allowing Role
The Receiving Role
The Giving Role
The Wheel of Consent and the 4 quadrants
The dynamic between these two halves
The Receiving Half
The Giving Half
The Doing Half
The Done-to Half
The 4 Quadrants ~ themes, challenges, possibilities, erotic elements, spiritual principles and shadows of each:
Some thoughts on the Taking Quadrant with my friend Harry Faddis, who invented the 3 Minute Game.
BONUS! A nice long conversation with Harry Faddis, the inventor of the 3-Minute Game