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his page is a gift to you.

It’s what the marketers tell me I should give you only after I make you give me your email address.

To heck with ’em. Here it is, and if you want me to email you when I offer classes (which I do) or when the book is published (this fall) – please, yes, give me your email!

Last year, writing my book, I took a couple weeks off to make a few short videos so all the folks who were asking about it and wanted to use it and share it, could do so. Of course, that took about 6 months longer than I’d planned, but here it is – all 7 hours or so.

This is the body of work I have have been developing over the last dozen years, which I call the Wheel of Consent. The videos are fine, the ideas are fine – but it’s the experience of it that will change you.

I hope you have a great time with it.

Thank you, Betty

 

 

 

Introduction

 

 

WANT-TO AND WILLING-TO: What’s the difference and why does it matter?


RECEIVING AND GIVING:
Not what you might think!


FOLLOWING THE PLEASURE:
What is pleasure and what does it mean to ‘follow’ it?

 

The Lessons

The Lesson

 

The geekery behind it ~ what is happening here?

 

 

The Lesson

 

The Taking Role

 

The Allowing Role

 

The Lesson

 

The Receiving Role

 

The Giving Role

 

 

 

 

The Wheel of Consent and the 4 quadrants


The dynamic between these two halves

 

The Receiving Half

 

The Giving Half

 

 

The Doing Half

 

The Done-to Half

 

 

 

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The 4 Quadrants ~ themes, challenges, possibilities, erotic elements, spiritual principles and shadows of each:

 

Some thoughts on the Taking Quadrant with my friend Harry Faddis, who invented the 3 Minute Game.

 

 

 

Extras

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BONUS!  A nice long conversation with Harry Faddis, the inventor of the 3-Minute Game