Here’s a list of resources – it’s not comprehensive, but is mostly people I have worked with.
Workshops
School of Consent (where I currently teach): schoolofconsent.org
Body Electric School (where I got my start): bodyelectric.org
Barbara Carrellas: Urban Tantra
Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross: Bodysex, for women
Online courses
Cyndi Darnell: – The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal
The Pleasure Mechanics: pleasuremechanics.com
Joseph Kramer and friends, founder of the Body Electric School: eroticmassage.com
Barbara Carrellas: Online classes and videos at Urban Tantra
Resources and references
Scarleteen.com – About vulvas, and about penises, and so very much more.
Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross: dodsonandross.com
The Pleasure Mechanics: pleasuremechanics.com
Books
Betty Dodson: Sex for One
Charla Hathaway: 8 Erotic Nights
Jaiya: Red Hot Touch, Blow Each Other Away, and more.
Sheri Winston: Women’s Anatomy of Arousal
Gloria Brame: The Truth About Sex: A Sex Primer for the 21st Century
Jack Morin: The Erotic Mind
Mary Roach: Bonk: the Curious Coupling of Science and Sex
Kitty Stryker: Ask: Building Consent Culture
Consent, boundaries, and sexuality education for kids
Kidpower – comprehensive safety and boundary training
Nadine Thornhill: – Sex Ed for schools and families
Sarah Casper: Comprehensive Consent